UNDERSTANDING THE INVISIBLE FORCES THAT SHAPE YOUR SESSIONS (AND YOUR BUSINESS)

Not everything that shapes a powerful coaching session shows up on your Zoom screen. There’s the conversation you’re having and then there’s the current running just beneath it. That subtle shift in tone. The silence that says more than words. The tension you didn’t name—but definitely felt.

Welcome to the world of energetics—the invisible architecture holding (or hindering) your coaching container. Most coaches are taught to stick to structure. Ask the right questions. Stay in the process. But mastery? That begins when you learn to sense what’s unsaid and trust what’s unspoken.

So, What Is Energetics?

Energetics refers to the unseen, often subconscious forces that affect connection, transformation and momentum in a coaching space. It’s the dance between what’s visible and what’s vibrational. It’s not about being “woo.” It’s about being attuned.

Here’s where energetics tend to show up:

Your internal state: Grounded or rushed? Present or performing?

The emotional field: Is your client open, or holding back? Is something left unsaid?

Power dynamics: Are you guiding, or subtly taking over? Is your client shrinking?

Unconscious beliefs: Are your fears—about being good enough, or charging enough—leaking in?

The truth? Your clients don’t need to name what they feel. They just feel it. And so do you.

Your Presence Is the Container. You can have the perfect intake form, the most polished program, even a killer Zoom background—but if your nervous system isn’t regulated, your sessions can’t go deep. Because coaching isn’t just about tools. It’s about tone. The energy you bring into the space is the space.

If you’re pushing, they’ll resist.

If you’re distracted, they’ll close.

If you’re steady, spacious, and real? They’ll meet you there.

Your job isn’t just to guide the session—it’s to hold it.

Energetics in Business? Absolutely.

Your business holds energy, too.

The energy you bring to a launch, your pricing, your sales process—it’s all felt. If you’re pushing, panicking, or people-pleasing, your audience may not name it—but they know something’s off.

What if your marketing came from magnetism, not manipulation? What if your pricing came from power, not proof? What if your business model felt like an energetic match for your nervous system—not just your goals?

Energetics isn’t about getting it “right.” It’s about getting real—with yourself.

Ask yourself:

Is this offer aligned with my capacity—or am I hustling to prove?

Does this price reflect my worth—or my worry?

Is my business model sustainable—or just strategic?

You don’t need a bigger funnel. You might just need a better frequency.

Imagine if your marketing came from magnetism, not manipulation. If your growth strategy felt like an energetic match for your nervous system—not just your revenue goals. That’s business from the inside out.

In the end, presence is the real strategy. Energetics isn’t an “extra.” It’s the undercurrent of everything: your sessions, your brand, your leadership. You don’t need to be perfect—just present. — JASPER WILDE

ENERGETICS IN PRACTICE